Always a brainy young adult, she earned a biology degree from Vassar College and had no interest in acting.
"I was interested in becoming the adult that I saw myself becoming, which was not an actor, nothing silly. I wanted something respectable, to be the kind of woman who would attract a certain kind of man that I could respect," she said. "I actually made an effort to reject acting, to shove it out of my body, because I didn't want my kids to have an actress as a mother -- to have a silly person.”
After graduation, though, she moved back to California and joined The Groundlings, an improve comedy troupe in LA.
"After I graduated it really struck me hard, I couldn't fight it any more. So I pursued it, and I got encouragement on the way, and I stuck with it."
In 1989-90, she appeared in episodes of “Cheers,” “Newhart” and “Life Goes On” while struggling to establish her career.